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Saturday, July 30, 2011 3:46 PM

28. Misunderstandings ;

Misunderstandings .

I hate 'em .

Because one misunderstanding can ruin a relationship .

Be it friendship , boy-girl relationships , parent-child relationships , all sorts .

Kinda sucks , doesn't it ?

Why does it have to exist ?

Annoying max .

So misunderstandings happen when one person isn't clear enough of his/her words .

Or maybe there was some conflict in them .

And a third person comes in , rub some salt , pats his butt , and leaves .

Otherwise it's just bad communication .

This means we lack of communication .

I checked dictionary.com , and this is what "misunderstanding" means :

[mis-uhn-der-stan-ding]
mis·un·der·stand·ing

–noun
1.
failure to understand correctly; mistake as to meaning or intent.
2.
a disagreement or quarrel.

So misunderstandings results in quarrels , yes ?

Well , not always , but still , the people involved in the misunderstanding stop talking to each other .

They become mad at each other , they refuse to talk to each other , but they know , they miss each other .

People act they don't care about the other party in misunderstandings .

But if they didn't care , they wouldn't be thinking about them every single day .

I guess misunderstandings between a guy and a girl can be a good thing .

Because , maybe , just maybe , they think about each other every day , thanks to this misunderstanding .

Has anyone ever wondered how to clear a misunderstanding ?

It's to confront each other , face to face , innit ?

I guess that's one way .

But what if you're unable to clear it face to face ?

Let it stay as a misunderstanding ?

As a Gemini , I don't like misunderstandings .

I don't like to be misunderstood .

I'd rather have a face-to-face confrontation . At least , I know where I went wrong .

It's scary how misunderstandings can cause 2 people to stop talking to each other .

Like , total avoidance .

It's scary , the way it works .

And it's all in the mind , in the brain .

We think too much .

Humans , think too much .

Some are afraid to confront others , because they think too much , like , bombard themselves with meaningless questions .

Some think that there's no point in confrontation , because it'll just lead to more quarrels , more fights , and nothing resolved . They think there's nothing they can do about it .

And some people , well ...

Let's just say they don't even dare to try .

And I guess I'm one of these people .

They don't have the guts to try asking , try resolving it .

Because they have already given up hope .

They're worried of what would the other person reply .

They're worried , what if they screw up ?

And this is , once again , all part of the brain's work .

We think too much , too deep , such that we become afraid of it .

Coming to think of it , minds are such scary things too .

Everything that we can't touch , we can't see , but we know it exists , they're scary .

And I'm not talking about the supernatural or aliens and whatnots .

I'm just saying , things , such as :

- the mind

- misunderstandings

- hatred

- jealousy

- greed

- popularity

- fame

- pride

- thoughts

- stupidity

LOL , just joking about the stupidity thing . Is there something called "idiocy" ?

OMG , I don't know .

[...]

OHMYGOSH .

THERE IS A WORD CALLED "IDIOCY" .

It means "the state of being an idiot" .

An utter idiot like me !

I deserve a pat on the back for coming up with a word that I've never seen or heard before , but it exists .

I'm so proud of myself , I can kiss my elbows and say "good job" .

Back to the point , I'm talking about how scary certain things are .

And reading through that list , you'll realise that yes , those things are known to mankind , but we can't touch them .

We're unable to use our 5 senses to detect them , except feelings .

FEEL IS NOT ONE OF THE 5 SENSES , TOUCH IS .

And so , well yes .

Now on with the conclusion .

So what triggered the switch in my mind to write a blog post on misunderstandings , was you , again .

So well , I'm sorry , for "rejecting" you many times .

But I need to clarify , I never did once , "rejected" you .

Take the ECP thing , for example .

I never said no , I don't remember saying it .

I welcomed you to join me .

In fact , I do remember saying yes .

Just me and you . I didn't mind .

I never said no .

And then , came the Pooh present .

I'm really grateful for it , and well , I guess I just didn't phrase my words well on that day .

That day , 19th May 2011 .

See , I still remember .

I guess guys and girls take words differently .

When I said "I didn't want the present" , I meant it this way ,

I'm not worth the present you're giving me , don't spend so much on me . I'll feel guilty !

I didn't mean it as ,

Hey , don't give me the present , I don't like you .

I guess you took it the wrong way .

But it's too late to apologize anyway .

Just let things go with the flow .

Till then , bye !

~~You broke it once , and you won't break it again .~~

~~I won't let you .~~

~~Watch me .~~